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Do people choose whether or not they are gay,straight or bi? Or are they born with it? What do you think?

I think people are born with it.

I mean I've watched an episode of Tyra and there was this gay dude who basically hated himself because he was gay. If we could choose what to be I think most of the ones who are gay/les wouldn't choose to be.

People don't choose to be gay or straight. They just are.

You can't help what your attracted to.

For instance, I like short curvy girls.

I can't help it that I'm not attracted to tall girls ,or fat girls.

As a homosexual myself, I know it's not a choice! When I was finding out what gender I was attracted to, I was on the deep edge, the last thing I wanted to be was gay. If it actually was a choice, I would be straight.
Not to mention, if there are so many people that hate LGBT people.. then why would anyone choose to be LGBT? No one would choose to be in a group that is widely hated and discriminated against.