Coming of age to me is just a number. Some people are mature at 16 others 21 or older like me.
When you can support yourself and have an open mind on things and ready for the future and boy that can be a struggle.
When I was 21 I thought I knew it all. My parents knew nothing. I am retired now and as I look back my parents had experience they were wise and I laugh at how little I did know and you know what I am still learning.
To me coming of age is listening and learning. I wish you all a good future and good luck when you believe you have come of age.